Over reacting? opinions please?

If you had arranged with a friend to suprise his wife with a birthday/come mothers day dinner with presents, flowers etc, then a day later he askes if two of his other friends can join us can you re-book the table for 6? this is ok by you so you phone and re book, in the mean time before he knows you have been able to add two more diners( remember this is mothers day you need to book early) he then phones you and says we are now going with the other friends, you can follow or we will meet you there (where has the suprise for his wife gone?)Would you feel slighted by this or are we over reacting?

Over reacting? opinions please?
I would tell him to get lost somewhere dangerous, lol
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Reply:yes i would be highly offended,, its like services no longer required,, you've done all the donkey work to arrange and rearrange, then its like they have pushed you out, i don't know though if i would tell the guy at this stage just how i felt, but after the advent i would take him aside and tell him,,men are insensitive in these matters and i don't think he will realise hes offended you, but once pointed out to him i am sure he will apologise to you ,, if he doesn't then next time be more courteous when ask to help
Reply:I think you should just cancel it all - bit arrogant of him
Reply:Id tell him to stop fu%$ing me around and to get fu#$ed
Reply:I would feel unhappy at his behaviour, the trouble is that if you react to it you could spoil the day for his wife, therefore I would hold my tongue and try to ignore it. But if he asked in the future to arrange something I would probably refuse
Reply:I would feel slighted as you have gone to some trouble to organise something and he's been thoughtless. It seems he values the other friends more to me. Not much you can do about it though.
Reply:You're not overreacting. Not much will come of it if you freak out about it though. It's the thought that counts and you learn from decisions you make with other people. For your friend on an upcoming other holiday, don't include anyone else. Do it yourself so that you don't get mad or upset.
Reply:I would probably have a brat attack sulk for a bit feel hurt then get over it a go as if nothing had happened
Reply:I think your over reating. It is going to be her day right? So let it go, for it will be her day. No others should react to this, is no cause for you. You`ve done your part in helping to make her day. OK?
Reply:not over reacting he should have done it himself
Reply:What a wally! Well done for forgive, but not forget though!



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