A very long question about internet friendship?

i have had an online friendship for a few years but for some reason she seems to want nothing to do with me anymore. i really dont understand it. we have talked online or on the phone daily the past few years but the last week she never writes or calls me back. i am wondering if i did something wrong. i have bought her gifts and sent to her since we have chatted. nothing out of line. but for some reason she hasnt talked to me much since christmas. i sent her a present i thought she would like. she is a nascar fan so i sent her a boxed set of her favorite racer. i really dont know what went wrong. i know she doesnt have much money and i have never wanted her to buy me any gifts, i was more than happy getting a christmas card from her. do you think i somehow have offended her by buying her gifts? i do for everything. her birthday, valentines,etc and i sent her flowers when she was in the hospital. i just dont understand why she would just all of a sudden stop talking to me.

A very long question about internet friendship?
ya.....it happens always on Net...


like im from Pakistan and i meet with girl in chat she was from Philippine....we meet on 2004....i sent her many gifts





also were talking on phone daily....i sent her many gifts.....


she loved me so much that time...


but after few years....she becam automaticly changed..i dont know why.....may be she has anyother one........


1st i feel very bad even i tried to kill my selfe...


but after few days i becam ok again


and now im fine at all...i dont care about her...because i know if she dont care about me then why should i care for her...


and why i would waste my mony for her anymore...
Reply:Ask her what's wrong, that why she don't talk to you anymore. Maybe she's just busy OR sudden things happened
Reply:I think all you can do is write her a letter asking her why shes not responding to you anymore. Send it. Then get your mind off of it until either she responds or she doesn't. If she doesn't then you have to respect she might be going through something or not wanting to continue your friendship.
Reply:It could be any number of things, but I think the most likely thing is that she's found someone else. It's a bit soon to determine that 100% since it's only been a week, but that's what I think. Since you have each other's phone #s %26amp; have been talking for years I doubt that she'd get so busy that she wouldn't be too busy to drop you a note.





In any case, don't bombard her with emails %26amp; calls. Just drop one email or phone message to her saying that you are worried about her %26amp; that you are not going to call or email her anymore unless she herself initiates the next message. Don't do anything over the top like sending her presents. You shouldn't have to buy her attention. I really think that she's just found someone new to date or hang out with.



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