I answer any questions is it becoz... What? anyone can tell me? Will i had an abortion last weekend anyways me and my bf is so weird will me i never use to like him as much as i do now it's weird it was my birthday on the 13 and he came over and gave me some flowers that look like roses the color is pink and yellow and i'm taking good care of them they are blooming not fully yet but can someone tell me why am i falling so much now but not before my friend said that she can see that i like this guy so much now but didn't show it before now im kinda scared to say i love you cuz how i was in the past now im like all lovey dovey with him is this a good thing? what do you guys thinks going on with me? Or could it be that he was there for the abortion or there through the whole relationship we have been together for 9 months. My ? is what do you think about this and i dont know what to do to cuz my exs are calling me again should i talk to them or no stay with the guy iam with now?
Why can't....?
You have alot of resentment towards him. If I were you I would put this relationship on whole and really do some soul searching.A abortion is nothing to play with. This is something that you will carry on you for the rest of your life. Baby, "IT WOULD TAKE MORE THAN ROSES FOR ME!" Stop rushing to grow up. And learn from your mistakes. Good-Luck to you !
Reply:you're weak after the abortion
you're weak anyway. get some condoms and bang all of those guys.
Reply:You should stay with the guy that you're with right now...dont bother with the exs because they are nothing but trouble...this man/guy has been there for you through a serious and rough time of your life...and its seems like he is a nice person from what u are saying so...give it a try just dont rush things.
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Wednesday, March 17, 2010
What do I do?
My partner finished with me 15 days ago, dont really have a clue why. Dont know what to do, haven't text or spoken to her since, so need to hear her voice. She said she wants to spend time on her own, and I know what this means, she's either got someone, or doesnt know what she wants! She was so in love, said she had never ever been treated so special, been so cared for in her life. Im itching to text her to say hi, but scared I'll push her further away, n dont want her to think I've forgoten about her cos she is all I can think of. What shall I do, its her birthday in a couple of weeks, shall I send a card and flowers, she always liked them in the past, as no one had ever sent her any before. She seems to have gone all cold on me.
What do I do?
Don't worry she is probably sat at home two sweating because she really wants to speak to but doesn't want to make the first move after finishing it with you and is probably wondering why you haven't rang she probably thinks you don't care you have split up. i think leaving it another two weeks is a silly idea what have you got to lose if i was you i would send a huge bouquet of flowers to her work saying forever yours love you always and obviously your name.
Good luck
Reply:just send her a message telling her you are thinking about her....and leave it at that..wait and see what happens...good luck
Reply:She may have someone else, just text her and say hi, see what she does,but remember, if she dosnt respond you may feel hurt just as much if not more, good luck
Reply:Ring her up and ask her straight out.Why should you be left waiting for her to make up her mind.Ring her and ask if your still a couple or if you have finished.If she still says she dosen't know then leave it,don't contact her at all.Do it now.Ring her!!! Find out where you stand.Hope it goes your way.x
Reply:In my opinion you guys need to talk it out. No one should be left in the dark in a relationship finished or not.
You need closure. Sounds to me like shes overwhelmed with all the attention you give her and maybe she just wants to get her head round it. Give her another couple of days and contact her. Tell her you wanna talk. Shes had time to get sorted and now you need to, too. If you were so in love its worth a try.
Reply:I see no harm in you sending her a birthday card or even asking her out for a drink for her birthday. what harm can it do and the worst she can say is no.
I would hold back on the flowers to see what she says about the drink. if she says yes then buy her flowers.
Good luck. You sound like a very caring person.
Reply:it sounds like she probably doesn't want to be around so i would leave her for a bit as she finished with you.
I think the fact she has gone cold on you makes it clear that she knows what she wants, sorry.
Reply:Sending her flowers and a card seems like a good idea as it then leaves the door open for her to contact you to say thanks. Just try and be patient do things to keep your mind off her. If it's meant to be it will be. I have done this to a partner in the past as it got too much for me. However in the end it brought us closer together.
Reply:im in a similar place my friend and probably the best thing to do is leave her alone even tho ur wanting to contact her! and in time she might call u but if not then you must move on its bloody hard i know but ul do it ul see!
Reply:I think you should text her to say hi and ask how she is.. you can gauge from her reply how she's feeling about you (if she does reply). I would hold off on sending her the flowers (you are not together anymore and this might freak her out). You will need to tread carefully here. The thing is, she may have met someone else but either way you are entitled to know what happened and she owes you an explanation. Try the text first and see what happens.
Reply:sorry this isn't what you want to hear but move on hun. By the sounds of things you gave her your all and thats what really matters if she doesn't appreciate you then find someone else who will. There's plenty more people out there who would want your love and attention and would actually appreciate this, it's hard to move on but its for the best to stop you from urting
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What do I do?
Don't worry she is probably sat at home two sweating because she really wants to speak to but doesn't want to make the first move after finishing it with you and is probably wondering why you haven't rang she probably thinks you don't care you have split up. i think leaving it another two weeks is a silly idea what have you got to lose if i was you i would send a huge bouquet of flowers to her work saying forever yours love you always and obviously your name.
Good luck
Reply:just send her a message telling her you are thinking about her....and leave it at that..wait and see what happens...good luck
Reply:She may have someone else, just text her and say hi, see what she does,but remember, if she dosnt respond you may feel hurt just as much if not more, good luck
Reply:Ring her up and ask her straight out.Why should you be left waiting for her to make up her mind.Ring her and ask if your still a couple or if you have finished.If she still says she dosen't know then leave it,don't contact her at all.Do it now.Ring her!!! Find out where you stand.Hope it goes your way.x
Reply:In my opinion you guys need to talk it out. No one should be left in the dark in a relationship finished or not.
You need closure. Sounds to me like shes overwhelmed with all the attention you give her and maybe she just wants to get her head round it. Give her another couple of days and contact her. Tell her you wanna talk. Shes had time to get sorted and now you need to, too. If you were so in love its worth a try.
Reply:I see no harm in you sending her a birthday card or even asking her out for a drink for her birthday. what harm can it do and the worst she can say is no.
I would hold back on the flowers to see what she says about the drink. if she says yes then buy her flowers.
Good luck. You sound like a very caring person.
Reply:it sounds like she probably doesn't want to be around so i would leave her for a bit as she finished with you.
I think the fact she has gone cold on you makes it clear that she knows what she wants, sorry.
Reply:Sending her flowers and a card seems like a good idea as it then leaves the door open for her to contact you to say thanks. Just try and be patient do things to keep your mind off her. If it's meant to be it will be. I have done this to a partner in the past as it got too much for me. However in the end it brought us closer together.
Reply:im in a similar place my friend and probably the best thing to do is leave her alone even tho ur wanting to contact her! and in time she might call u but if not then you must move on its bloody hard i know but ul do it ul see!
Reply:I think you should text her to say hi and ask how she is.. you can gauge from her reply how she's feeling about you (if she does reply). I would hold off on sending her the flowers (you are not together anymore and this might freak her out). You will need to tread carefully here. The thing is, she may have met someone else but either way you are entitled to know what happened and she owes you an explanation. Try the text first and see what happens.
Reply:sorry this isn't what you want to hear but move on hun. By the sounds of things you gave her your all and thats what really matters if she doesn't appreciate you then find someone else who will. There's plenty more people out there who would want your love and attention and would actually appreciate this, it's hard to move on but its for the best to stop you from urting
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Do you have parents who have never kissed, hugged or said they love each other whilst in your presence?
The only sign of affection that I see is birthday %26amp; anniversary cards. I can't remember ever seeing a bunch of flowers in the house. I can't believe I've never asked anyone else this, or even talked about it with my brother. I guess I have just accepted it because I was brought up in that environment and took it for granted. They are still married %26amp; living together, apparently content with one another, after more than 30 years.
(they married in their 20's).
How unusual is this? What is your interpretation of their relationship with one another %26amp; with my brother %26amp; I?
Do you have parents who have never kissed, hugged or said they love each other whilst in your presence?
It's that generation I guess - my parents are exactly the same - they are both in their 60's. I expect that your parents were more demonstrative when they were younger - but maybe because you were younger you don't remember that or maybe, once they had you guys, they didn't have time to kiss and cuddle so much!. Clearly, they have had a long and successful marriage - something to be proud of. I think that their generation was not shown that much affection by their own parents - life was much harder then and so, they are not as affectionate as a result. It might just be a case of "not in front of the children" - classic for their generation!
Reply:Just old fashioned I guess
Reply:my mum and dad was the same never show any afection with each other or us lads, i think men are alot soppyer now and women now days wouldn't put up with a relationship like that any more, i've been married twice now and this one is nearly over, it will efect you and your bro if you let it if you get a understanding mrs thats not full on in your face then you'll be fine , i can't be doing with all that soppy stuff , hence twice marreid
Reply:i have never seen my parents show affection to each other in my presence,maybe because we're indians!!!
Reply:my parents kiss and cuddle in front of us (me, and my brother and sister) all the time. I think it's healthy. Showing emotions and affection is agood thing and lets your children grow up knowing that its good to express your feelings.
Reply:no my parents are different. always hugging and kissing. some times it's too much. we us kids have to yell "get a room. and no more brothers and sisters please. lol"
Reply:my dad thinks kissing passes germs lol.
Reply:yeah I have parents that don't do that stuff and I think it is good but I don't want them to do that kind of stuff. I mean its so gross especially if your parents do it.
Reply:Yes I do have parents that don't do those things. It is very strange for me not to see that because I see other couples that do that all the time. I think it is because they just grow out of it and they have kids now.
Reply:ya i do ifind it nery weird and jus thought twas their romance gone after 25yers of marriage
Reply:Not everyone is comfortable with showing their emotions in public, or in front of others. It doesn't mean that their feelings are none existent. I don't remember my parents being overly affectionate with each other but we knew they loved us. My husband and I show our kids that they are loved and we all tell one another that we love each other everyday, just different generations I suppose.
Reply:My parents never show any affection for each other. But if there happy then thats all that matters really.
Reply:yes i have had the same as you,just see things on birthdays,anniversaries etc,never heard them say they love each other,mind you im 46 n not once have they said they loved me,but me im in a loving relationship where we tell each other daily how much we love one another,ppl who say you follow in your parants footsteps tlk a load off bull
Reply:Yes - my sister and I talk about it quite a bit and we both think that's why we both have a problem showing our affection.
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(they married in their 20's).
How unusual is this? What is your interpretation of their relationship with one another %26amp; with my brother %26amp; I?
Do you have parents who have never kissed, hugged or said they love each other whilst in your presence?
It's that generation I guess - my parents are exactly the same - they are both in their 60's. I expect that your parents were more demonstrative when they were younger - but maybe because you were younger you don't remember that or maybe, once they had you guys, they didn't have time to kiss and cuddle so much!. Clearly, they have had a long and successful marriage - something to be proud of. I think that their generation was not shown that much affection by their own parents - life was much harder then and so, they are not as affectionate as a result. It might just be a case of "not in front of the children" - classic for their generation!
Reply:Just old fashioned I guess
Reply:my mum and dad was the same never show any afection with each other or us lads, i think men are alot soppyer now and women now days wouldn't put up with a relationship like that any more, i've been married twice now and this one is nearly over, it will efect you and your bro if you let it if you get a understanding mrs thats not full on in your face then you'll be fine , i can't be doing with all that soppy stuff , hence twice marreid
Reply:i have never seen my parents show affection to each other in my presence,maybe because we're indians!!!
Reply:my parents kiss and cuddle in front of us (me, and my brother and sister) all the time. I think it's healthy. Showing emotions and affection is agood thing and lets your children grow up knowing that its good to express your feelings.
Reply:no my parents are different. always hugging and kissing. some times it's too much. we us kids have to yell "get a room. and no more brothers and sisters please. lol"
Reply:my dad thinks kissing passes germs lol.
Reply:yeah I have parents that don't do that stuff and I think it is good but I don't want them to do that kind of stuff. I mean its so gross especially if your parents do it.
Reply:Yes I do have parents that don't do those things. It is very strange for me not to see that because I see other couples that do that all the time. I think it is because they just grow out of it and they have kids now.
Reply:ya i do ifind it nery weird and jus thought twas their romance gone after 25yers of marriage
Reply:Not everyone is comfortable with showing their emotions in public, or in front of others. It doesn't mean that their feelings are none existent. I don't remember my parents being overly affectionate with each other but we knew they loved us. My husband and I show our kids that they are loved and we all tell one another that we love each other everyday, just different generations I suppose.
Reply:My parents never show any affection for each other. But if there happy then thats all that matters really.
Reply:yes i have had the same as you,just see things on birthdays,anniversaries etc,never heard them say they love each other,mind you im 46 n not once have they said they loved me,but me im in a loving relationship where we tell each other daily how much we love one another,ppl who say you follow in your parants footsteps tlk a load off bull
Reply:Yes - my sister and I talk about it quite a bit and we both think that's why we both have a problem showing our affection.
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Feelin' Hurt...............Advice???
I'm 23 and my bf and I have been dating for 3 yrs now. It kinda feels like when it comes to holidays/birthdays he feels like it's a hassle to do anything for me. Here are just a couple examples: On Valentines Day he worked late and when he came home I had some little gifts for him that I had put a lot of thought into. He didn't give me anything. He said he felt stupid cause he tried to go buy me flowers after work but everything was closed...he got in the shower and asked me if I'd go pick up McDonalds. He was extra nice and I could tell he sort of felt bad but I was so hurt. So my question is- On my birthday (a few months later) he got me a dozen roses.....but that was all. For some reason I kind of felt hurt again. I was sort of expecting him to try and do something special. Am I a total ingrateful gf for being hurt or should I be thankful that he thought to get me the flowers? I really wanna know the truth so that if I'm wrong I can just forget about it!
Feelin' Hurt...............Advice???
Honey, this is a hard one to answer but I really must comment on this issue. You cannot make an unromantic man romantic, and if you are trying then your going to have to spell it out in no uncertainty that you want item X or Y and you want it on this special occasion and then cue him in a couple weeks in advance and sometimes even after all this work that you have to put in, you are still left with much less than you expect. I dont know why this is. Maybe something else is wrong but I do know that its hard to make someone unknowledgable about Romance into Don Juan...very very tough, takes lots of patience and must be as dilligent as if you were a dog trainer! If you love this guy, learn how to get the most from your love, but if it is too much to deal with then realize you picked the wrong guy and go find someone more your style...they are out there. Good luck sweety. Dont set yourself up expecting the moon and stars when all this guy can give you without proper training is... fries with that. Take Care.-Rachel.
Reply:I think it's confusion and that maybe you're not easy to be with on holidays. Nobody should be grateful for getting hurt. But you should appreciate the flowers. Discuss this with him, he's probably feeling guility, himself.
Reply:omg horrible. what did he say when you told him about a note? hmm i think that if he doesnt give you what you need its time for a break or maybe a break up... i mean your bf should care about you and your feelings..
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Feelin' Hurt...............Advice???
Honey, this is a hard one to answer but I really must comment on this issue. You cannot make an unromantic man romantic, and if you are trying then your going to have to spell it out in no uncertainty that you want item X or Y and you want it on this special occasion and then cue him in a couple weeks in advance and sometimes even after all this work that you have to put in, you are still left with much less than you expect. I dont know why this is. Maybe something else is wrong but I do know that its hard to make someone unknowledgable about Romance into Don Juan...very very tough, takes lots of patience and must be as dilligent as if you were a dog trainer! If you love this guy, learn how to get the most from your love, but if it is too much to deal with then realize you picked the wrong guy and go find someone more your style...they are out there. Good luck sweety. Dont set yourself up expecting the moon and stars when all this guy can give you without proper training is... fries with that. Take Care.-Rachel.
Reply:I think it's confusion and that maybe you're not easy to be with on holidays. Nobody should be grateful for getting hurt. But you should appreciate the flowers. Discuss this with him, he's probably feeling guility, himself.
Reply:omg horrible. what did he say when you told him about a note? hmm i think that if he doesnt give you what you need its time for a break or maybe a break up... i mean your bf should care about you and your feelings..
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A magazine on desert gardening?
My dad's birthday is coming up. He LOVES to garden, especially to work with flowers. But, he lives in Las Vegas. He is quite successful despite the arid climate. I thought he might appreciate a magazine subscription about gardening in the desert or in the southwest. Does anyone know of anything like this or how I could track one down? I'm looking for something that would focus on something other than "desert landscaping" (i.e. cacti and rocks) but would show adjustment for planting times, etc.
A magazine on desert gardening?
Sunset Magazine is dedicated to gardening in the West. There are plenty of back issues, books, and online articles written expressly for desert gardening.
go to: http//www.sunset.com for more info
Reply:I believe there is a magazine called Southwest Gardens or Arizona Highways.
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A magazine on desert gardening?
Sunset Magazine is dedicated to gardening in the West. There are plenty of back issues, books, and online articles written expressly for desert gardening.
go to: http//www.sunset.com for more info
Reply:I believe there is a magazine called Southwest Gardens or Arizona Highways.
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Friend trouble ??
A close friend(girl) of mine had her birthday on 25th of may...
She stays on another city now, so i sent her flowers (loads of red roses) with the help of her room mate...
Those flowers were delivered 2 her but without my name..
i just wanted 2 keep her guessing her 4 some time.
ne ways on 25 night i asked her roomy 2 tel her bout who send da flowers which da roomy did....
but this girl has not called me or SMSed me since that..
(we normally chat on SMS or on phone for hours almost daily)
ne idea why??
does she expect me 2 call her up %26amp; apologize 4 nt putting my name on it??????
i took a lot of trouble 2 send em all da way from my place, i think she should atleast say that she got em..
what do u think i should do???
ps:- shes nt mu girlfriend but we r really close...
thanx !!
Friend trouble ??
I don't think she would expect you to call and apologize for something as little as forgetting to put your name on the flowers. That would be a little odd. Maybe she just hasn't had the time to call you. Call her up and be like "hey, hows things been..." and then if she doesn't bring up how she loved the flowers, ask her. "did you like those flowers i sent you?!"
Reply:Don't think like boys.U keep urself in her situation and then start searching for the solution.U would b able to develop a idea urself.
Reply:Flimsy and trifles should not disturb you. See that things are normal
Reply:She think that you are playing games with her some people don't like games. So what I'm saying is what you did backfired. I think she's waiting for you to say something about it. Or maybe this maybe she was hoping it was you that did it but there was no name and you didn't say anything. So she's holding it against you. So I think its time for you to call her and explain the joke. hmmmmm?
Reply:It is better to ask sorry for not putting UR name on the flower. I feel that you should have spoke with her instead of the roommate. I think she is annoyed about that. Just ask forgiveness and go ahead. I think she will forgive you and you will be friends again.
thanks
Reply:just call her and ask her if she got them
you sound like great friends..this is no biggy
Reply:Maybe she is thinking the roses meant you are thinking you want to hook up with her, and if she doesn't feel that way about you it might be making her feel awkward and not knowing what to say. Red roses mean love, yellow mean friendship, so if she knows that she may have the wrong idea.
I would suggest calling or emailing and explaining the situation, whatever you meant with the roses so she is clear on their meaning and why you didn't put your name. Better to take care of any misunderstandings on both your parts than to ruin a good friendship sitting around wondering what each other meant. Good luck!
Reply:i think shes just a little puzzled that u think of her as more than just a friend. just leave her alone, and if she truly likes u, she call or something
g00d luckkkkkkkk:]
Reply:jus call her.................... and ask about flowers
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She stays on another city now, so i sent her flowers (loads of red roses) with the help of her room mate...
Those flowers were delivered 2 her but without my name..
i just wanted 2 keep her guessing her 4 some time.
ne ways on 25 night i asked her roomy 2 tel her bout who send da flowers which da roomy did....
but this girl has not called me or SMSed me since that..
(we normally chat on SMS or on phone for hours almost daily)
ne idea why??
does she expect me 2 call her up %26amp; apologize 4 nt putting my name on it??????
i took a lot of trouble 2 send em all da way from my place, i think she should atleast say that she got em..
what do u think i should do???
ps:- shes nt mu girlfriend but we r really close...
thanx !!
Friend trouble ??
I don't think she would expect you to call and apologize for something as little as forgetting to put your name on the flowers. That would be a little odd. Maybe she just hasn't had the time to call you. Call her up and be like "hey, hows things been..." and then if she doesn't bring up how she loved the flowers, ask her. "did you like those flowers i sent you?!"
Reply:Don't think like boys.U keep urself in her situation and then start searching for the solution.U would b able to develop a idea urself.
Reply:Flimsy and trifles should not disturb you. See that things are normal
Reply:She think that you are playing games with her some people don't like games. So what I'm saying is what you did backfired. I think she's waiting for you to say something about it. Or maybe this maybe she was hoping it was you that did it but there was no name and you didn't say anything. So she's holding it against you. So I think its time for you to call her and explain the joke. hmmmmm?
Reply:It is better to ask sorry for not putting UR name on the flower. I feel that you should have spoke with her instead of the roommate. I think she is annoyed about that. Just ask forgiveness and go ahead. I think she will forgive you and you will be friends again.
thanks
Reply:just call her and ask her if she got them
you sound like great friends..this is no biggy
Reply:Maybe she is thinking the roses meant you are thinking you want to hook up with her, and if she doesn't feel that way about you it might be making her feel awkward and not knowing what to say. Red roses mean love, yellow mean friendship, so if she knows that she may have the wrong idea.
I would suggest calling or emailing and explaining the situation, whatever you meant with the roses so she is clear on their meaning and why you didn't put your name. Better to take care of any misunderstandings on both your parts than to ruin a good friendship sitting around wondering what each other meant. Good luck!
Reply:i think shes just a little puzzled that u think of her as more than just a friend. just leave her alone, and if she truly likes u, she call or something
g00d luckkkkkkkk:]
Reply:jus call her.................... and ask about flowers
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Is she playing games or hard to get?
She has a magnet on the fridge with happy faces expressing various emotions that she and I have been playing with for over a year. I gave her flowers for Valentines Day to say sorry for a mistake I made and she moved the magnet to "Lovestruck" and kept my flower after they wilted. She also seemed to touch me by accident. For her birthday, I made a simple puzzle for her to follow, that led to my gifts of poetry and an invitation to eat out. She didn't seem interested in the puzzle, and said she didn't have time for it. She also stopped moving the magnet. When I saw she didn't like my puzzle, I just gave her the gifts and asked her out, which she refused. A week later, I asked her why and she said I was doing this because of my mistake prior to Valentines Day. Then I told her that I was over it and wanted to do the B-day stuff for her, not due to my mistake. Last I saw her, she had moved the entire magnet to a different location on the fridge and the emotion to "mischievous"
Is she playing games or hard to get?
She likes someone else dude. My best advice if you want her to want you is to completely ignore her!! Sounds like she has you on a string and she knows it too! Ignore her and she'll get ahold of you!
Reply:It sounds like she is just playing games. I'd bail out on her and just be friends. She sounds like trouble to me.
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Is she playing games or hard to get?
She likes someone else dude. My best advice if you want her to want you is to completely ignore her!! Sounds like she has you on a string and she knows it too! Ignore her and she'll get ahold of you!
Reply:It sounds like she is just playing games. I'd bail out on her and just be friends. She sounds like trouble to me.
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