Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Friend trouble ??

A close friend(girl) of mine had her birthday on 25th of may...








She stays on another city now, so i sent her flowers (loads of red roses) with the help of her room mate...


Those flowers were delivered 2 her but without my name..


i just wanted 2 keep her guessing her 4 some time.





ne ways on 25 night i asked her roomy 2 tel her bout who send da flowers which da roomy did....





but this girl has not called me or SMSed me since that..


(we normally chat on SMS or on phone for hours almost daily)





ne idea why??


does she expect me 2 call her up %26amp; apologize 4 nt putting my name on it??????


i took a lot of trouble 2 send em all da way from my place, i think she should atleast say that she got em..


what do u think i should do???


ps:- shes nt mu girlfriend but we r really close...


thanx !!

Friend trouble ??
I don't think she would expect you to call and apologize for something as little as forgetting to put your name on the flowers. That would be a little odd. Maybe she just hasn't had the time to call you. Call her up and be like "hey, hows things been..." and then if she doesn't bring up how she loved the flowers, ask her. "did you like those flowers i sent you?!"
Reply:Don't think like boys.U keep urself in her situation and then start searching for the solution.U would b able to develop a idea urself.
Reply:Flimsy and trifles should not disturb you. See that things are normal
Reply:She think that you are playing games with her some people don't like games. So what I'm saying is what you did backfired. I think she's waiting for you to say something about it. Or maybe this maybe she was hoping it was you that did it but there was no name and you didn't say anything. So she's holding it against you. So I think its time for you to call her and explain the joke. hmmmmm?
Reply:It is better to ask sorry for not putting UR name on the flower. I feel that you should have spoke with her instead of the roommate. I think she is annoyed about that. Just ask forgiveness and go ahead. I think she will forgive you and you will be friends again.





thanks
Reply:just call her and ask her if she got them


you sound like great friends..this is no biggy
Reply:Maybe she is thinking the roses meant you are thinking you want to hook up with her, and if she doesn't feel that way about you it might be making her feel awkward and not knowing what to say. Red roses mean love, yellow mean friendship, so if she knows that she may have the wrong idea.





I would suggest calling or emailing and explaining the situation, whatever you meant with the roses so she is clear on their meaning and why you didn't put your name. Better to take care of any misunderstandings on both your parts than to ruin a good friendship sitting around wondering what each other meant. Good luck!
Reply:i think shes just a little puzzled that u think of her as more than just a friend. just leave her alone, and if she truly likes u, she call or something


g00d luckkkkkkkk:]
Reply:jus call her.................... and ask about flowers



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