Is this creepy?

My girlfriend broke up with me a month ago, and I still have strong feelings for her. We are "friends", and its her birthday. Would it be creepy/too innaproroate to leave flowers on her stoop?

Is this creepy?
I don't think it sounds creepy, I think it sounds sweet!!
Reply:I see nothing wrong with buying flowers for your friend. Give them to her in person, though.
Reply:no that is sooooo sweet. its flowers what could be creepy about that?? it could even bring a smile on her face
Reply:Good heavens Be a man and take the flowers to her house.


Don't leave them on the door step.


Whether you broke up or not. Just take them around and


wish her the best. Then you can leave. Don't be a baby.
Reply:Leave a note or something. Otherwise you will scare the poor girl.
Reply:It's not creepy to give her flowers. Friends by each other birthday gifts all the time. I would not leave them on her stoop. I think that might creep her out. It's been a month. The break up is still fresh. You don't want to push her away. I would give them to her personally (no strings attached), like it the regular thing to do. If it is to hard to face her, then have them sent to her home or job, with a card attached and your signature. Write something nice on the card but don't sound needy. "Just thinking of you on your special day". Hopefully she will see it as a friendly gesture and a welcome surprise. Don't do the mystery/sneaky thing. That's creepy. Have everything in the open, like true friends do. Be mature. You don't want to look like the wounded boyfriend stalker.


Good Luck!!!
Reply:No, absolutely not. If you're still friends, I'm sure she'd like the idea. Any friend would do something like that.
Reply:its a little inappropriate....flowers are usually gifts boyfriends or husbands give to their girlfriend or wife. try a less affectionate gift...maybe a gift card?
Reply:No, that'd be fine. Friends of any gender can give each other gifts, including flowers. It's a sign that you appreciate that person and care about them, acknowledging that it's her birthday. Don't worry about it and if she questions you, just tell her what I've posted here. It's the truth and you don't have to be madly in love with someone to get them flowers. If she won't listen to you telling her you still have strong feelings for her, just tell her that. Hope this helps! ;-)
Reply:I dont think it would be creepy at all.... i think it would be romantic.
Reply:No I certainly don't think it is creepy.
Reply:Don't make me come out there Bill... the buzz word here is "NEXT!" She kicked you to the curb. Why beat yourself. There's lotsa chickies out there that WANT you around... this one DOES NOT. Keep the fond memories and go make some NEW ONES!... You just got bucked off your horse boy... now get back on and ride over the Muffy Buffet. go on get! HeeYAH!
Reply:WTF?


Of course it would be creepy. Move on stalker.
Reply:if you are really,,,"friends",,,whyyyyy not? just don't say you love her.
Reply:its not that its creepy or inappropriate, but if she's not interested, she won't like it at all. so think wisely, it could work if she regrets breaking up, but if she doesn't you'll basically kill your friendship.
Reply:That is very nice... :-p
Reply:Not at all :)
Reply:It doesn't sound creepy at all.
Reply:awwwww.....i hope my boyfriend's gonna do that, i admire your sweetness...
Reply:I am going to go with a combination of the funny answer and the right answer do the dog doodo thing for sure but leave nice pretty flowers right next to it(well maybe a few feet away) with nice love note it will get her so confused she will just have to call you and see whats up?
Reply:You must never leave anything on anyone's stoop. It is not very polite, and especially if you do not leave your name, can be disturbing to the recipient. Also, it implies you have been in close quarters - a bit too close for comfort. No one likes to feel someone is that close or watching.





Annoying this lady is the last thing you want to do. There are other ways of showing you are still an admirer... not a stalker! Direct ways work best. Why not send a card, signed clearly with your name? A card is not a gift, and therefore shows only feelings and does not make the recipient uncomfortable or obligated.





Good luck
Reply:Although, because your asking if it's creepy, I don't think you are a creep or a stalker like some people have said. I believe you just want to do something nice and you still have feelings for her. If she is seeing someone else, don't do anything. It really just depends on how long you've dated, if your really "friends" now. Just the next time you see her make sure you acknowledge her birthday and hope she had a good one. That way she knows you thought of her, but doesn't put you both in an awkward position.
Reply:first of all what is a stoop do you mean steps? anyways no its wouldnt be creepy i think its sweet
Reply:dude don't do it just be a "friend" and get her a normal gift and a card.
Reply:Let go you stalker... ugh...
Reply:No...it would be really sweet of you to leave her flowers...that shows her she was special 2 you!
Reply:Yep, it would be. If you get her something, make sure it is a simple gift that lets her know you understand that you two are only friends.
Reply:That's very sweet man. but I say don't do it. She will take advantage of you.
Reply:No, that would be cute. Leave a note on the flower's saying Happy Birthday, love your Friend (your name) .
Reply:1. It really depends on the situation. If you were caught stealing her panties for the 5th time.. then i would say "no"





2. Everyone in here seems to be saying yes, but i would ask those people if it was THEIR ex, what would they think about it? I wouldn't be shocked if the answers changed a bit.
Reply:I don't think it would be creepy since you guys are still friends. It might make her feel uncomfortable though if she doesn't have strong feelings for you still, ya know? I don't know! Have you been getting any vibes that she still has feelings for you?




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