I know I'm being used by these girls, but I still want to be thier friends, SHould I mention anything?!?

I really like/d hanging out with these girls that I've known for a year now, I've been almost too nice to them even though they are just my friends. I would get them lunch and bring it to thier school, I would buy them some clothes at thier favorite store. Pick them up from school and hang out etc. I just can't drop them as friends though because I really like hanging out with them. But at the same time I don't want to be used anymore. Should I say something to them about it? or should I just continue being friends with them and see if it changes and just hope they actually like hanging out with me. I really like one of the girls and we talk every once in awhile but they always ask me to do favors for them like get them cigaretts because they are only 17, BTW I'm 18 years old. I showed the girl I like how much I liked her by sending flowers to her school on valentines, I got her a birthday gift. She just likes me as a friend though. What should I do?

I know I'm being used by these girls, but I still want to be thier friends, SHould I mention anything?!?
Friendship is a two way street, we have all had friends (whether they be the opposite sex or not) that just don't put in as much effort as we do. In truth you waste alot of energy and get very little back (which sounds like your situation). You know where you stand with this girl in that she just wants to be mates and it sounds like you have accepted that.





If you genuinely want to stay friends with them just slowly stop doing the things that make you feel used. You have to keep your self respect and the only friends worth having are the ones that want you around too. So no need to go cold turkey and never speak to them again just slowly stop doing all this stuff, hang out with some other people a bit so you are less dependent on them and soon enough you will find out if they want to genuinely be friends with you.





Good luck.
Reply:Give it up. Move on.
Reply:this might not be easy but you need to let them know that yer finished letin them use you.If they are really yer friends then they'll apologize and everything wud be fine if not and they "drop" you as their "friend", then you deserve better and you need to find yerself real friends. A friend is sum1 who looks out for yer interest, not uses you!





Try sumin like this





you: umm jane could i talk to u for a sec?





jane: yea sure





you: This has been buggin me for awhile,alot of the time it seems as though you are jus using me.(if she pretends not to hear repeat it)





jane: wat?





you: (give examples)





And you can handle it from there. gd luk and if things don't work out you deserve better!



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