Please help? prom question?

ok this week has been pretty chaotic. i just asked someone to prom, but she says she will think about it. Does this already mean no? and even if it doesnt, shuld i just move on anyways becuz its like a backup, if she doesnt get someone else instead? iono





but the only reason i asked was cuz


on v-day, we exchanged flowers, and then ya wrote notes to each other


and then my birthday was like a week later, and she wrote me another letter for my bday plus a nice card.


and recently she just wrote a long email to me, and i replied back with a long email to, and asking her to prom.





we were pretty good friends last year, but we barely talk this year.. so maybe thats why.





or it could also be my fault, i havent really done anything SUPER nice to her, and sometimes i act like she wasnt there (dont no i just feel weird sometimes)





should i just wait and see what happens or just move on and try to find someone else?





=/ i dont no what to do plz help

Please help? prom question?
Inhale....exhale. Good now listen. You asked her and all you can do is wait for an answer or see if she makes plans with someone else. You have just as good of chance going with her than all the other guys who have asked, if not better. Just wait and see what she says. You could be presently surprised. If you really want to, try telling her how much you like her. That could persuade her to go w/ you or add pressure. Your choice. Good luck!
Reply:Be patient --you did your part, now let her do hers... BTW...hope your prom is as nice as mine was... make it a night you and her never forget ..seeing how prom's and weddings you can't get do-overs..or aren't supposed to be able :)
Reply:wow.... ok if a lot of pple asked her then dont rush her. give her a day or 2 but at the same time try checkin out and thinkin about some other gurls just in case. and if u dont REALLY REALLY want to go with her , like yur ganna be sad tht she says no then mabey its the best idea to tell her , its ok if u say no im not ganna be mad or upset. best of luck and i hope your prom goes well
Reply:well, there's no use trying to read her mind. it usually doesn't work. It will be difficult, but the most grown-up thing to do would be to check back with her and say something like,


"I would really like to go to prom with you. I think we'd have a great time--but if you have other plans, that's fine. I just need to know, so I can ask someone else."





I think if you are real cool and confident, she will be impressed with your maturity. Maybe that will help her make up her mind.





Good Luck!!!
Reply:Well doing somethin REALLY NICE %26amp; OVER THE TOP would be a good idea..Think of a really romantic way to ask her.. %26amp; if youre not a romantic maybe itll surprise her %26amp; make her think you did this just for her!!!! Give it time but not too much time bc remember girls have to have AT LEAST a month prior planning..Hair, make up, tanning, dress, etc....So, if she keeps hesitating move on...
Reply:You totally sound like you're stressing. So stop and take my advice : ) You are good enough, first of all, so don't think that you're not. With the answer she's given you I think you should just move on to another girl who would like to go with you to Prom.





What is there to think about??? If she really wanted to go with you her answer would have been YES right away and not "I'll think about it". Let me help you interpret her response: Maybe if I never get back to him with an answer he'll ask someone else. I'm a woman and I'm 31yrs old. I've got enough experience under my belt to know what I'm talking about.





Believe me, you'll be happy you did. And if you do ask someone else, she shouldn't get mad. If she does then she's an *** and should have said yes to begin with. You'll be teaching her a lesson : )
Reply:its a little early so she might just be thinking about all of her choices..dont move on if you truly like this girl...try being nice to her and talk to her without coming on too strong the next couple of days. Good luck!
Reply:Give her the customary twenty-four hours to decide and then find someone else. The simple fact that her first response was an excuse is not a good thing. Have fun and congrats on the upcoming graduation.



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