Should I just tell her that I like her?.......?

I really like this girl, even though she knows I like her, I haven't actually told her yet. She knows I like her because I have sent flowers to her school on valentines day, I gave her a birthday gift on her birthday, I have bought her clothes that she wanted at her favorite store etc., I have been really nice to her friends too. I did ask her if she liked me more than a friend a while ago and she said "I don't know, its hard, I like you as a friend though". I'm kind of shy and she knows that I'm shy, but should I just tell her that I like her? or won't that make a difference as far as her liking me? Should I compliment her sometimes? or would that be awkward for her?





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Should I just tell her that I like her?.......?
Just ask her out, it doesn't even really have to be a date. Get one of your guy pals to go with you guys so it's like a group thing and a date you know. It won't be as uncomfortable but you'll still get to chill in a romantic environment. Don't ask her if she likes you, just go with the flow and see what happens. What's meant to be is meant to be, it'll happen. : )
Reply:Alrighty 1st thing I have to say is that if you did all that stuff for me I would prolly date you I mean you sound like a really cool sweet guy... are you guys like already friends.. been friends... that can be awkward for girls sometimes but it can also be used to your advantage because that mean you know her very well and she know you too ........ I think you should always put out your feelings so they arent bottled up.. I hope this helps you!:)
Reply:Why not get her on her own and find out if she likes you?


It sounds to me like she enjoys getting all the gifts you buy her so doesn't want to tell you that she doesn't have feelings for you in that way.


You need to be strong cos if she doesn't feel the same as you then you should move on.


Good luck sweetie
Reply:For starters.. WOW u did really a good job so far. Well personally i think the best way is to be close with her for now. She knows ur feelings but do U know her feelings? if she dosen't like you or not sure. DON'T FEEL DOWN coz there will always be a chance that they will change their feeling depending on ur actions. Morever don't spoilt her too much on the gift or else she will feel obligated to like you or be ur girlfriend. THIS IS NOT WHAT U WANT. this will only result in a failing relationship sooner or later. Also don't try or force her to like you. i said it again DON"T TRY. Act natural around her, smile, laugh and be happy when you are with her. this way she will gradually feel comfortable around you. OVER TIME she will change her feelings abt you. BUT it all depends on YOU!



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