Why doesn't he want to have sex?

I've been dating this guy for almost 6 months. He's nearly perfect. For my birthday, he got a room and put candies and flowers everywhere, took me out to dinner got me drunk and NOTHING! I am about to explode if we don't do anything soon. When I try to talk to him about it, he avoids the topic.

Why doesn't he want to have sex?
He has a small penis.
Reply:He's maybe nervous....
Reply:Maybe he had never had sex before and is just very shy. Girl be thankful that he isnt a horn dog like most men.
Reply:he is gay
Reply:mabe he isnt ready
Reply:lol maybe he wants to stay a virgin, till after marriage? the guy has integrity and no he's not gay!
Reply:He has a disease called homosexuality.
Reply:Perhaps he's not ready to take this step yet.
Reply:What are his religious beliefs? He could not want to have sex with you because he's waiting for marriage.
Reply:Maybe hes not ready....Or maybe he doesn't think you ready!


Surprise him!
Reply:Perhaps he realized that the one thing that was wrong was that you were drunk. That's never a good thing. In fact, it's a waste of some perfectly good candles and flowers and a room. He didn't know that, though, until he actually got you there and realized the occasion was not right. He probably did want it to be special but if you're drunk, it might as well be the back seat of a caddy.


If he is avoiding the topic, try to find out why. He may have a moral objection that he just can't shake, he may have forgotten the all-important condom, he may have realized he didn't want to screw a drunk and have the first time be clouded by too much alcohol.
Reply:Maybe he just isn't ready to do anything yet! He's not like most guy and would already have sex with you! Take a break from him for a while and date other people and see what happens then or maybe talk to him about it! Just talk to him and give him some time to think about what you said!
Reply:Maybe he doesn't know how. Maybe he has a small penis. Maybe he has ED.


Maybe he doesn't know he can because you haven't shown him the way between your thighs. Grab that nimrod by the head and kiss him---hard. If that don't get a response outta him you might have a problem. He might not know how to approach your American Pie so please, show him the way. Your friend in advice,


askaman
Reply:Be glad.It sounds like he really likes you but doesn't want to use you.Maybe Now getting drunk on any date can be dangerous because of all the sexual diseases out there.Not to mention getting pregnant.
Reply:He just doesn't want to take advantage of you, sounds like a sweet guy to me. Maybe next time you're in the mood, try to calm him down and make him in the mood - set your surroundings to make it look super romantic.
Reply:Maybe because he isnt ready..he wants to wait until marriage or until he knows for sure that yall will be together. And maybe the reason he dosent want to talk it is because he thinks that you will laugh at him or leave him because he knows that you want it that bad. Just take it slow and if it happens it happens and if it dont thats up to you.





I hope i helped!
Reply:Maybe he has respect for you.
Reply:maybe he has an STD!
Reply:he isnt ready or cant take the risk so i would give him a chance to think about it u may be rushing it
Reply:If it was just the one time, he might of not wanted to take advantage of a drunk woman, and that should be thought of as respect for you. He may not want to get stuff complicated by sex and make sure the relationship is strong and secure first. May be waiting till marriage. If it really does bother you that much, maybe you should be asking him this question
Reply:Well for starters, can we have a clue about gender? If it's a female and male, something is most certainly wrong! is he married? If he feels inadequate...you know? that might cause this kind of situation. If you truly care for him...wait it out, until then try to satisfy yourself by other mechanical means, no joke. If he maybe catches you doing something like this it may send a clear message. 6 months is a long time. You may have to move in on him...to see what happens.
Reply:maybe he just isn't ready. try to talk to him about it more %26amp; more everyday. make it seem like your a pro at it. try to do something sexual, like flirt %26amp; put a move on him. hopefully he'll get the idea that you're ready for it %26amp; from then on out, it's all on him to decide
Reply:sorry but your dude is gay.
Reply:wow


he is a saint


cling to that one


my fiance avoids the topic lol


it annoys me


but if he thinks am giving in on our wedding night


he is in for a surprise lol


hold down your b/f,he wont be able to run lol
Reply:maybe he's not ready for such a step yet. You have to ask him about this, If you like him you have to be able respect his opinions and choices he makes. I know this is hard for you to wait. Waiting seems to be forever right? well preocupy yourself with somthing else. Youre basicly jumping from step 3 to 10. TOo fast! So ask him about this.
Reply:Hes got love and respect for you---whats wrong with that? you are lucky to have found a boy with moral standards-don't knock it.enjoy,your relationship can go forward so much better-without sex being an issue. Peace.
Reply:He's gay.
Reply:if you have tried to talk with him then i am not really sure what to tell you. maybe give him an ultimatum: either you have some sex, or this just isn't going to work out. maybe then you can get him to talk about it.
Reply:Have you tried seducing him?





Perhaps he is waiting for you to be the aggressor, either out of respect for you or because he feels you are not ready.



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