Saturday, October 24, 2009

I'm really into this girl...?

I'm a highschooler who loves to be that hopeless romantic type and do something sweet for a girl. Now i pretty much confessed my love, after 4 months, last... saturday. I was dreading negative consequences but she never really told me no. So i talked to her, found out a bit more about her. And one day when she was hanging out with another guy, when she had promised to hang out with me, I got a bit jealous. We promised to be totaly open with eachother, so we talked, and worked past it. Now she's never relaly been in a relationship before, but this was the first time I asked her if she had feelings for me back. She replied, saying that she's confused and, "well, i like being around you, and you can be so sweet, but i feel there's more i need to know about you." So i told her that i would stay after school some days and get to know her, because she can't really date. Now friday was her birthday, and i got her flowers. Apparently, said her friend, she thinks that I'm am now stalkerish.

I'm really into this girl...?
ok personally and this is jus me i think you confessing your "love" to her was the wrong thing to do. and if she's never really been out with anybody she may be a lil confused and trying to figure things out. give her time andyou can't jus know someone in a couple of days. getting to know someone takes a while. jus be her friend at first and learn more about each other and then take the big steps and if it's meant to be it will be.
Reply:i think she's uncomfortable. Girls tend to get alittle creeped out when they are too close to a guy friend. especially if the guy friend have feelings for her. Once, I was really close to this one guy and i only knew him for about 3 months. and well i felt really awkard around him. and i hated it. then i started to hate him. so now i avoid him. and he knows i hate him. so i don't think you want that to happen. so just give her space and occasionally talk to her. maybe her 'uncomfortableness' will subside. =]
Reply:maybe she don't really like you.....if she really like you she won't say that you're now stalkerish....you and her must get to know each other before you and her get to a serious relationship......



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