Having A Lot of Trouble Getting Over Ex-Fiancee. Very Hard To Move On, NEED HELP PLEASE!!!?

My fiancee decided to cut off our engagement in June and break up with me after being together over 4 years because she said she needed to find herself in life. Needless to say, I loved this girl more than anything, and I thought she was madly in love with me and still am very very upset over this. I have not heard from her since November . I signed up on Match.com about two months ago, I have been on a few good dates and many bad ones. I honestly miss my ex SO MUCH. But it is so hard for me, she completely phased me out of her life. How can I help myself to move on. In the past , the very few times I tried to contact her, were never responded to. And when I mean very few, I mean, I called her 2 times since September. i sent her flowers for her birthday on January 16th. It is so hard for me to move on. I still cannot get over the fact that the girl who was going to marry me, now does not even acknowledge that I am alive and avoids every attempt for me just to chat. Need Help!!

Having A Lot of Trouble Getting Over Ex-Fiancee. Very Hard To Move On, NEED HELP PLEASE!!!?
First of all calm down. Listen - prior to meeting her you had no idea she existed and you lived your life. That is exactly what you need to do now. Forget the flowers and all the other BS... set aside one day and cry your brains out and mourn her any way you see fit. Then I want you to wake up the next day and move on. That's right move on. She did you a big favor by letting you know before children and all the other things that happen in a relationship she didn't want to be with you. You seem like an intelligent guy. Go to the gym - join a new club - find a hobby. She is moving on with her life and you are sitting here holding a torch. OK - so you went to Match.com and didn't find anyone -big deal. Listen to me you are your own worse enemy. It hurts when someone we like doesn't like us back but remember there is someone out there for you!. The quicker you stop the other nonsense calling - flowers etc you will see that you will miss her less and less. Right now you are building this story in your head how great things were. Get out there and live life and see how great thing CAN be!
Reply:omg im so sorry, its her loss, for a guy to love you that much and just to throw it away as if it was nothing. she didnt deserve u if thats the way you both feel.
Reply:Try spending time with yourself and not worrying about her or getting back into the dating scene just yet. You are too hung up on the past to be a good partner to anyone here in the present.





Get to know what makes YOU tick and what your needs, goals and desires are. You will make better choices of future mates once you know who you are inside. Grow and learn and sort things out before you involve someone else. You aren't doing either party any favors by being ill-prepared for the world of dating, especially since you are still mourning a loss.





Speaking of your ex-fiance, she knew what she had on her hands after 4 years of being with you and opted out. Respect that. I am glad she didn't go through with a marriage (and possibly having kids) knowing it wasn't right for her in the long haul. Be glad you are not another marital casualty/split family. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound (more like a TON when it comes to divorce!) of cure.



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